We finally got out camping this spring. Boy, did it feel good to get out there in the campground and away from the business of the home, slump down in a folding chair, stretch the legs out and stare at the campfire. Even on Mothers’ Day weekend. The Misses needed to get away and relax for Mothers’ Day and I needed to get out and cook some steaks, burgers and brat’s.
But of course we were not alone very long. It didn’t take very long before the grand kids found out and we started having company. First to show up were the oldest granddaughter and her six month old daughter and then came the two youngest with their parents. The next night it was the oldest grandson with his new girlfriend and we stayed up late nursing the campfire.
This being Mothers’ Day weekend it got me thinking about camping with mom. Mom loved camping and she was the catalyst for camping in our family. Raised on a farm in southern Illinois she loved the outdoors. She was an athlete also and she could run with the boys in school, played basketball and fast pitch softball. I remember one of my proudest moments in eighth grade. I was out for track and I challenged her in a forty yard dash and I finally beat her by inches. I don’t think she let me win.
Although she was a farm girl she was afraid of snakes; very afraid of snakes. At her one room school house during recess the boys found a big bull snake and as she was running away one of them threw the snake at her and it rapped around her legs and tripped her. My first recollection of camping with my family was in southern California in the mountains. Our tent was beside a stream at the bottom of the hill and mom was walking with my little sister up the side of the hill when all of a sudden I heard a scream and mom come running down that hill carrying my sister and when she got to the blanket next to the tent she fainted. Another time in California she almost stepped on a rattlesnake and the same thing happened. When she got to a safe place, she fainted. I still have the rattle of that snake.
Camping at campgrounds was pretty cool. I think the nicest people in the world are people who camp. Every once in a while we would meet up with group campers and they would invite us to their community barbeque. Mom and Dad loved to visit and they would stay up all hours of the night visiting with the other campers. I know, because I had to go to my sleeping bag for the night. Camping with friends is neat but camping with strangers and making new friends is COOL. So, on Mothers’ Day it is nice to remember mom and the things we use to do.
I remember talking back at my mother when I was about six or seven and sitting on the back steps with no shirt and she had a wire fly swatter. I never, ever, talked back at her again; never. She always came to my games, always cheered, and she always encouraged me.
When we moved from California to Iowa we camped all the way and a round about way. We camped in Sequoia National Park and got my picture taken in front of the General Sherman tree, saw deer peek in our tent in Yosemite National Park, witnessed bear along side the road in Yellowstone and remembered my first snow at Crater Lake. I remember the Grand Canyon and Bryce Canyon. All this and in a tent.
The day this Iowa boy left for the Navy she gave me some advice; or was it instructions. She said “don’t get a tattoo and don’t bring home a foreign wife.” I never did get that tattoo.
I never had the guts to ask her if she thought Tennessee was a foreign place.
I miss you Mom.





